Friday, July 17, 2009

Crusty Patches On Scalp Of Two Year Old

forever, does not consent


seems that we are accustomed to hearing almost daily news of fatalities from domestic violence. Each day we wake up with one or more women who have lost their lives for this cause. It is outrageous that as more advanced society, there are so many backward people think that the woman is a property that belongs to them, preferring to take their lives before leaving. One of the latest victims was a neighbor of our city. It is true that Ceuta is not a place where there are many deaths, fortunately in a few years there have been only two cases, but if there is abuse, a lot.

Women who suffer, are engaged in a hell of not knowing how to leave, despite the amount of information available now, because they do not feel safe anywhere. Some think that may not be worthy of a better deal, because it is so brainwashed that you do daily to apologize to their partners on an ongoing basis. There are those who justify them because they are alcoholics, or they believe they have a work-related stress or financial problems that make them aggressive. In other cases, mixed with jealousy behavior. But we must make understand that there is no possible justification for a brutal assaults another person or even slightly, because there are many alcoholics who have no problems with friends or with family or with their heads, why do you have to have them with your partner? Neither excuse unemployment, or anything else.

is normal when it occurs for the first time feel confused and disoriented and did not understand what is happening and are isolated from society and even family to hide the facts, but they have to react because otherwise This results in a final burst that has no solution and that is paid in most cases to life. So you have to teach them to report, lose their fear, to be valued, to understand that they are not owned by anyone and that nobody can hold much less violence.

We are sick of hearing the most important thing is prevention, but much to repeat, is not enough. We must return to repeat ad nauseam. We must begin to instill in children that social roles have changed and that therefore the relations between men and women are no longer the same. Must be aware that anyone can prevent and avoid a violent situation reporting. We must lose our fear.

Women are no longer alone. Thanks to this Government, are protected by law (Law on Prevention and Protection Measures integral against Gender Violence), and must realize it. Can complain in police, in courts of Violence against Women, or possibly in the Court of Guard. It is very important that you know, and explain clearly the facts in great detail. And if necessary, go to the Health Center to assess the physical and emotional. They are entitled to a lawyer specific gender violence.

also have to know they can get restraining orders, mandatory exit the aggressor from the family home. And if you fear for their safety or their lives, there are shelters in which they offer protection. Also in Parliament Europe is taking steps for the existence of a European directive against gender violence. But above all, must learn to see that they are not guilty of anything, to value their own ideas, to know what to give for love and what not. And above all, know that nothing and no one has the right to cancel as a human being. This is a string that can neither be stopped, and the need to strengthen links among them. Is a social problem.

Perhaps the day will come when we read the press there is no news regarding this issue, but as this is a utopia because there will always be fanatics who believe with the right to impose their ideas through violence, we while, to do our part and to use all social and legal in our power to eradicate this evil so entrenched in this society. And you know

woman, when instead of a home is a hell, instead of love there is pain and who promised you protection from God or a judge, will produce terror, no doubt, you have a case of gender violence. Act before it is too late.

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